Sometimes I look at my body and see all the marks left behind\u2014stretch marks, softness, changes in shape\u2014and for a moment, I forget the story they tell. But then I remember: this body didn\u2019t just change for no reason. It grew. It endured. It survived things I didn\u2019t think I\u2019d make it through.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
This body has carried heartbreak, stress, joy, exhaustion, illness, and healing. It has held me through sleepless nights, kept going through grief, and found energy on days when my spirit was drained. It has adapted to every storm life threw at me. That\u2019s not something to feel ashamed of. That\u2019s a kind of quiet, grounded strength.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It\u2019s easy to think beauty is about perfection or control. But nature doesn\u2019t work like that. Nature is change. It\u2019s growth, resilience, and adaptation. A tree isn\u2019t less beautiful because it bends in the wind. A mountain isn\u2019t flawed because it\u2019s scarred by time. And your body\u2014my body\u2014isn\u2019t ugly because it\u2019s changed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It\u2019s proof that I\u2019ve lived. That I\u2019ve faced hard things and kept going. That I kept showing up when I didn\u2019t feel like I could. That I nourished others, rebuilt myself, and made space for love again. That\u2019s not a flaw. That\u2019s extraordinary.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So I\u2019m learning to meet my reflection with gratitude, not criticism. To honour what my body has done instead of wishing it looked like it never lived. Because survival isn\u2019t something to hide. It\u2019s something to celebrate.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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