It’s so easy to forget how far we’ve come when we’re standing at a new beginning. A fresh chapter can feel overwhelming, especially when it’s unplanned or comes after something hard—loss, failure, heartbreak, or a big life change. It can feel like the slate has been wiped clean in a way that leaves you feeling…
Month: July 2026
Even if it’s quiet, even if it’s slow—your capacity to love is still alive.
Sometimes after heartbreak or long seasons of loneliness, it can feel like love has left us. Like it packed its bags and went somewhere far away, and we’re just… waiting for it to return. The warmth we used to feel might be quieter now. Maybe it’s a flicker instead of a fire. Maybe we second-guess…
Wanting to Be Loved Again Isn’t Weakness—It’s Honest, Human Longing
There’s something really tender about admitting you still want love. Especially after pain. After being let down, left, or unseen. After the heartbreak and the disappointment and the long nights where it felt easier to give up than to hope again. But here’s the thing: wanting to be loved again isn’t some desperate flaw. It’s…
You’re allowed to protect your heart and still open it.
It’s not either-or. That’s the first thing I want to say. You don’t have to swing between extremes—either shut down and “strong,” or open and completely exposed. There’s room to hold both. You can honour your need for safety while still making space for connection. You can have boundaries and softness. You can be careful…
Learning to Leave the Money Alone
Have you ever noticed what happens when you’ve been broke for a long time? You struggle for months, sometimes years, wondering how you’re going to make it. You finally decide to start a business, hoping it will slowly change your life. Then one day, your first customer pays you. Suddenly, there’s a thousand shillings sitting…