Money, like soil, isn’t good or bad on its own—it just responds to how we treat it. If I use it thoughtfully, with care and purpose, it has the power to nourish my life. It can support my wellbeing, create safety, open up space for joy, rest, and growth. Just like healthy land, when tended…
Month: December 2025
Loving the Enemy, Not Changing Them
There’s a line I’ve been thinking about: to love your enemies is to love them as enemies. It sounds simple, but it’s probably one of the hardest truths to live with. Most of the time when we say we “love” someone who has hurt us, there’s a quiet hope tucked underneath it—that maybe they’ll soften,…
The Mirage of Control
It’s strange how deeply we believe that life can be held together if only we try hard enough. We chase stability—saving money, nurturing relationships, building routines—as if somewhere there’s a version of life that will finally stop moving. But it never does. Things keep shifting. People change. Bodies age. Plans unravel. The world doesn’t sit…
I Am Still Me, Even When I’m Struggling
You don’t stop being worthy when you’re tired.You don’t stop being smart when your mind feels foggy.You don’t stop being lovable when you’re in pain.Struggling doesn’t erase who you are—it reveals what you’re carrying, not who you are underneath it all. When you’re going through hard things, it’s easy to feel like you’ve lost yourself….
On My Former Spouse: A Chapter, Not the Whole Story
There was a time when my world revolved around them. The rhythms of my day, the choices I made, the weight I carried—it was all wrapped around the shape of that relationship. And when it ended, it didn’t just break something between us. It broke something inside me too. Talking about a former spouse isn’t…