I’ve had seasons where money came in, and I spent it like it would always be there—quickly, without pause. Not out of greed, but out of habit, sometimes even desperation. It felt good for a moment… but it vanished just as fast. And what was left? Not peace. Not progress. Just more stress. That’s what…
Month: June 2025
I Don’t Owe the World Thinness—I Owe Myself Respect
Somewhere along the way, the world decided that a woman’s worth could be measured in inches. That thinness meant discipline, beauty, even morality. And if you weren’t thin, then you must have failed. Failed at control. Failed at caring for yourself. Failed at being lovable. I believed that for a long time. I spent years…
No Divine Script—Just Me, Figuring It Out
Some days, I wish there were a blueprint. A voice from the sky telling me what to do next. A divine script I could follow so I wouldn’t feel so unsure. But there isn’t. There never was. Just me. Just life, happening, unfolding, surprising me, breaking me open, and making me new again. And maybe…
You Don’t Need to Be Flawless to Be Worth Loving Again. You Just Need to Be Honest.
After a painful ending—whether it’s a divorce, a breakup, or a heartbreak that took something deep from you—it’s easy to feel like you have to come back perfect. Like love will only find you again if you’ve cleaned up every mess, erased every scar, and stitched yourself up without a seam showing. But that’s not…
My Story Isn’t Shameful. It’s Proof That I Survived.
So many of us carry around parts of our past like they’re something to hide. We try to cover up the messy chapters—the ones with heartbreak, abuse, trauma, mistakes, or things we were forced into. The shame creeps in when we think we’re “less than” because of what happened. But that shame isn’t the truth….